Unacceptable Things That You Should Never Have In A Relationship

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There are many things that happen in a relationship.  Some of these are good and some of them are bad.  However there are many things in a relationship that are not acceptable and should not be tolerated.  Of course this is much easier said than done.  When you are feeling threatened within a relationship you should move on.  This is much easier said than done but remember that you do not deserve the treatment that you are receiving and you would be better off moving on.  This article will examine several of the things that should not be tolerated within a relationship.

Cheating

One of the most obvious things that should not be tolerated within a relationship is cheating.  There are many reasons for this.  The first one is that if your partner is cheating on you he may end up with a sexually transmitted disease that he could pass on to you.  This could jeopardize your own health and cause you bigger problems in the future.  Another reason why cheating is unacceptable is that the trust you have built the foundation of the relationship on will be broken.  Of course these issues can be worked through but they will take time to forgive and often times the mistake of cheating will not be forgotten.

 

Lying

Another no-no that comes hand in hand with cheating is lying.  Trust is the key to keep a relationship strong and if you lie then your have broken that foundation.  It is important to mention that a little fib here and there is nothing to get really upset over but if lying becomes a regular habit it might be time to rethink the relationship and move on to someone else.

 

Tempers That Are Out Of Control

One of the natural human emotions is for you to get angry.  Everyone feels angry occasionally but it is how you handle the anger that matters.  There are people who get out of control.  This can be anything from punching holes in the wall to even taking his anger out on you.  Of course this is uncalled for and even if the anger is just in threats or breaking things it is still unacceptable behavior and you should not tolerate it at all.  There are two things you can do in this situation.  They are tell him to seek a treatment plan or leave him.  Your safety is the only thing that matters.

 

Abuse Of Any Kind

There should not be any abuse of any kind tolerated within a relationship.  This includes sexual abuse as well as physical abuse.  There is no one in the world that deserves to be abused.  If the person you are involved with hits you, rapes you or causes any other sort of physical violence you should do your best to get out of the situation and do it quickly.  Many people are being abused will not recognize the signs so it is important to listen to the other people in your life such as your friends and family.

 

People who are involved in a relationship should not be showing any types of disrespect to the person he or she is involved with.  If you find that you are being disrespected it might be time to move on from the relationship.  This could be through your body, your thoughts and even through your emotions.  If this is happening to you it is time that you find someone who will love you and give you the respect that you deserve.  Everyone deserves to be happy and feel safe.

 

Image credits to Camila Leal

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