How To Forget Your Ex When You Breakup

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When you are involved in a relationship and that relationship breaks up you might be feeling like everything else is falling apart as well.  You might seem like your entire life has stopped and there is no reason at all to be positive.  The good news is that just because you broke up you do not have to sit around and feel sorry for yourself.  In fact you should give yourself a break and move on in life to help to forget about your ex.  Who knows you might have a better life waiting for you just around the corner.

Time To Forget About Your Ex

Making the decision to forget about and distance yourself from your ex is the first step.  You should never forget the reasons why you broke up to begin with as these may help you in future relationships and help you move away from that person.  It is a difficult task when you are trying to forget about someone and not always positive but it can be done.  One of the best ways to do this is to remove your ex from all of your social media sites.  This way you will not see him or her pop up on your accounts all of the time.

Do Not Search For Information From Mutual Friends

When you break up but have mutual friends it can be difficult to start forgetting about your ex.  It is easy to ask these friends about what your ex is doing and whether or not he or she has found someone else to replace you.  Instead you should ignore that ex factor and you will find it will be easier to move on and start fresh.

Find New Hobbies And Interests

The best way to forget about a relationship that is lost is to start new hobbies and find other interests.  Starting a new hobby class and even possibly taking a short trip by yourself can accomplish this.  A bad idea is trying to pursue a hobby that you tried to do with your ex.  That will just bring up old memories and there is nothing good that will come of that.  By starting things from the very beginning you will see that new things can be accomplished and it does not take your ex to be with you to complete them.

Change Where You Live

If you have had a difficult breakup and you can manage to do so you might want to consider changing where you live.  By moving to a new city or town you might find that you will be more comfortable than living in the same area as your ex.  This will also help you to avoid running into people that he or she may know.  If you want to completely cut someone out of your life it might take drastic measures.

Do Not Go From One Relationship To Another

It is always a bad idea to jump from one relationship to another.  At this point in time you will want to be surrounded by your friends.  You should plan outings with friends of your gender.  This will allow you the perfect time to vent out all of your frustrations regarding your ex without having someone of the same sex as your ex.

When you have a relationship go sour the best advice you can have is to completely forget about your ex altogether.  This might be a very difficult thing for you to do especially if it was a long-term relationship but it can be done if you follow the tips above.

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